What is your Magic?

We all have something special within us—a unique quality that makes us stand out. I call this “your magic.”

When we talk about our strengths, most people list familiar qualities: hardworking, reliable, a good communicator. These are important! But I believe there’s something even more personal. It is a trait that sits at the core of who you are. It is a kind of “magic” only you can bring.

How Do You Find It?

For years, I’ve helped people prepare for interviews and big opportunities. We often create lists of 8 to 10 strengths—characteristics that help you shine wherever you go. But even with that list, I found myself searching for language to describe each person’s most essential quality.

A few years ago, I realized what I was looking for while talking to a friend. Their humility and service-oriented style made it hard for them to see just how extraordinary they really were. That day, I asked them, “What is your magic?” Suddenly, something clicked for them—and for me.

What Does ‘Magic’ Mean?

Your magic is the one thing that only you bring to your relationships, your team, your work. Sometimes it isn’t obvious to you but is crystal clear to those who know you best.

• For some, it’s their infectious optimism.

• For others, it’s relentless curiosity.

• Maybe it’s your calm presence during chaos.

• Or your ability to help others see their own strengths.

How Do You Find Your Magic?

1. Make a List:

   Write down 8 to 10 qualities that you think help you succeed in various parts of your life.

   
   

2. Ask Trusted Friends:

   Reach out to a few people who’ve seen you in action. Ask, “What do you value most about what I bring to our friendship (or team)?” Their answers might surprise you.

   
   

3. Look for Patterns:

   Is there one quality that shows up again and again? That’s a clue to your magic.

Why Does It Matter?

Your magic isn’t always something you’d put on a resume. It might not be a slogan or a legacy statement. Instead, it’s the core quality you draw on when things get tough or when someone needs you. It’s the foundation you can always return to, and it’s why people trust you, rely on you, and remember you.

For me, it took over 40 years to discover my own magic. My hope for you is that you find yours a little sooner.

So, I encourage you: Find your magic—and most importantly, believe in it.

Author: Jay Syverson, CRO, Intuitive